Sing Along Sunday: Just Be in July

Happy Sunday, readers!

Can you believe that tomorrow marks a full month into summer? July has brought many beautiful summer thunderstorms, resulting in a healthy patio garden for me! The grape tomatoes have been delicious so far. I love my little personal oasis right in the middle of the city. There's nothing more satisfying than watching the sunset surrounded by flowers, vegetables, and herbs you nurtured since late May.

Being able to sit back and physically look at what you've accomplished is a great way to calm down, especially after getting bad news. After waiting two years for a decision, I've finally got the verdict for my court case against my old employer in France (J'expliquerai plus en français un autre jour!). That very same day, I saw over half of my company laid off as a result of a recent merger. Emotions ran high that week. As a result, this month's playlist consists of old time favorites from past difficult chapters in my life as well as recent discoveries, including a few favorite, new dance songs. As I'm finally able to lock the door to the last chapter in my life, I continue to readjust my posture moving ahead: head up, heart open, and hair long.

To listen along with the song descriptions below, be sure to click on this link. You can also follow me on Spotify by clicking here. As a friendly reminder, you need a Spotify account in order to access my monthly playlists. I've included both the artists and song titles below, so if you're not keen on the idea of signing up for another music platform, you can always search and listen to these songs elsewhere.

Enjoy!

1. "I Couldn't Care Less" by Leslie Clio: Sometimes I have a really hard time discovering new music through Spotify's Discover tab, and other times, well, I find gems like this lady. I found a German playlist and was surprised to find this voice among all the rock and punk songs. 
2. "Worried About" by Lissie: While I first fell in love with this song after a break-up with an  ex-boyfriend, I now listen to it with a much different application. While only three years later (not four), I no longer have to worry about how my story with France and their judiciary system will finish.
3. "Just One Day" by Mighty Oaks: This is a refreshingly positive song that reminds you how much you're capable of in one day. The best part occurs at the 50 second mark. 
4. "Talk Show Host" by Radiohead: While Romeo & Juliet is not my favorite William Shakespeare play, the 1996 movie adaptation with Leonardo DiCaprio and Claire Danes is one of my all-time favorite movies. The application of the prose to modern sets, clothing, and culture proves that such a story continues and will always continue to be someone's true life no matter the year or city. The scene that this song plays in is breathtaking: a before the storm moment, where Romeo looks out at the beach, pondering life. They always say you never see love coming.
5. "East of the River Nile" by Augustus Pablo: A lovely song to play at the beach or while relaxing on a boat. How have I never heard of this Jamaican legend before?
6. "Take Me to Church" by Hozier: Holy mole, this song is powerful. I highly suggest watching the music video to get the full effect of Hozier's words. Listening to the song already gives me goosebumps every time, but the story shown in the video made me cry. 
7. "Coffee" by Sylvan Esso: Coincidentally, I heard this song playing on Spotify when I came back from getting a second cup of coffee at work. Apparently, I forgot to hit pause on the radio station I was listening to when I got up.
8. "Gooey" by Glass Animals: This song is so smooth. Hailing from Oxford, this group just put out their first full length album in early June. They're definitely on my "to watch out for" list!
9. "Female Robbery" by The Neighbourhood: The perfect song for when the wind starts howling warnings of a coming thunderstorm. The Neighbourhood show a dark, stormy side with these lyrics.
10. "Map Of The Problematique" by Muse: My obsession with Muse began towards the end of high school. Much to my dismay, their more recent albums have turned them more towards pop rock. (You can't head bang quite the same to "Madness" as you can to "Hysteria").  This will always be one of my favorites, not only for the beautifully written lyrics ("I can't get it right since I met you", "Why can't we see, That when we bleed we bleed the same"), but also because of the slow, progressive crescendo.
11. "Closer" by Kings of Leon: I wrote one of my favorite short stories in college while listening to this song on repeat. The story is as twisted as the song sounds.
12. "R U Mine?" by Arctic Monkeys: I love the band's latest CD, AM. While I thought I understood the entire song for once, I had to yet again look up the lyrics. 
13. "One Day I'll Be Rich" by Current Swell: As they sing, "Be careful what it is for which you dream." A lovely, honest song perfect for summer and traveling by bus or train.
14. "Doninké" by Knadia Kouyate: Now, away from the rock and onto African music! I came across this song after listening to Tinariwen. Knadia's voice blew me away.
15. "Watina (I Called Out)" by Andy Palacio and the Garifuna Collective: Andy came from Barranco, Belize, a city where the Garifuna language and its traditions still exist. The Garifuna culture stems from the mixture of two cultures: the Carib indigenous tribe and West Africans (who were were on their way to slavery when their ship sank by St. Vincent Island). Unfortunately, Andy pased away in 2008. I hope his legacy to preserve this culture continues to live on; the scenes in his music video intrigue me to learn more about them.
16. "Karibou Ya Bintou" by Baloji: My sister wrote her senior thesis on this Congolese musician. Naturally, I became interested in his work after listening to her explain her findings. For the music video with accompanying English subtitles, click here.
17. "Rude" by Magic!: The lyrics don't make all that much sense (Word choice: rude? Cruel, might have been better), but the vibe is pretty darn catchy. It'll soon be on your typical top 100 radio station if you haven't heard it played already.
18. "Elastic Heart" by Sia: I have listened to this song every single morning for the two weeks. Her lyrics are absolutely perfect. Sia's story is a beautiful one; I'm so glad she's found the strength to pull herself away from inner demons. Her new CD is equally as powerful lyrically as her first two.
19. "Changes" by Faul & Wad Ad: I came across this song after listening to way too much Avicii in one week. 
20. "Badri" by Dounia Batma: I was introduced to this singer a few months ago. She was runner-up during the first season of Arab Idol in 2011. While she hails from Moroccan, she often sings Khaliji songs. Can you believe she's only 23?
21. "Gharqan" by Rashid Al Majed & Mona Amarsha: Last month my belly dance teacher introduced us to Khaliji, a style of music and dance coming from countries in the Persian Gulf (think Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, Kuwait, Oman, Qatar, and United Arab Emirates). It wasn't until I started taking this folkloric class that I was really able to differentiate between the various styles of Arabic music. We danced to the remix version in class, but I prefer the one listed here. 
22. "Sodfa" by Yara: Yara is a Lebanese singer who also goes by her birth name, Carla Nazih Berkachi. She came out with a solely Khaliji album in 2009 which was, to many music producers surprise, a huge hit. 
23. "Neseeni" by Sherine Abdul Wahab: A Tunisian friend sent me a ton of Sherine's music a few years ago. I fell in love with her first single, "Ah Ya Leil" when I first started listening to Arabic music in France, but "Neseeni" is my latest go-to song. She has such a strong voice and does such a great job portraying the emotions of her lyrics.
24. "Bridges" by Broods: A duo out of New Zealand, Broods are a huge hit on the other side of the world, trailing right behind Lorde on the charts. I hope they come tour in America.
25. "Truth" by Alexander: Alexander is most commonly known for his hit "Home" produced with his group, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros. I can never concentrate when I listen to any of his songs; it must be the whistling.
26. "Soft Shock" by Yeah Yeah Yeahs: It's Blitz! got me through a whole heck of a lot during my last year in college. This song always seems to calm me down, no matter the circumstances. 
27. "What Goes Around Comes Around" by Rebirth Brass Brand: It says it all in the title. Karma always gets you in the end, so remember to treat others how you want to be treated!

There you have it, folks! I hope you have a wonderful week! Enjoy this brief summer Polar Vortex before the humidity and heat come back to us.

Bises,

La petite pamplemousse

Virtually Friendless for Ten Days

Ten days ago, I decided to log out of Facebook. I didn't delete or suspend my account. I simply wrote a post explaining that if my friends wanted to follow the experiment, they could come here for updates on my life; then, I signed out. Originally, I thought I write about how I felt as a virtually friendless person every day. I imagined it would be quite a difficult feat, resisting the urge to start typing "face..." into my web browser. I had an idea in my head that I would track email reminders to sign in, or the number of times I went to the web page before realizing I shouldn't log into my account. Yet, I'm already over a week into this personal challenge, I haven't done any of that, and, truth be told, I don't feel all that different.

Meanwhile, the Internet continues to pump out more and more opinion pieces on the world's recent finding that Facebook conducted an "emotional manipulation" experiment on some 700,000 users. It seemed that all I came across were negative takes on the issue...that is until I found this PC Magazine article. John C. Dvorak brings up a very valid point in the third paragraph in regards to the public being malleable prior to Facebook or their experiment. While his tone borders the line of being a bit too sarcastic, his article did made me chuckle. I believe it's exactly what people need to read in order to get that this concept of being "manipulated" really isn't new.

Perhaps that's why I don't feel any different sans Facebook. I still get my daily dose of one-sided news stories through online newspapers, blogs, and radio. My emotions are still a reflection of what occurs in my immediate surroundings, virtual or physical. To put it bluntly, reading about Syrian women struggling to keep their families alive without a job, the recent admission of Apple using child labor as a means to build its products, or even the continuous coverage on young children crossing the Texan border in hopes of escaping a drug-gang run country makes me feel like a useless piece of shit.

While I may not feel changed emotionally thus far, I do see a slight improvement in how I handle my free time. I've returned to cranking out 300 plus page books like I once did in my undergraduate days. One of the two books I finished over the weekend was so hard to put down. Fair Game: My Life as a Spy, My Betrayal by the White House is Valerie Plame Wilson's memoir on the CIA scandal that took over her personal and professional life during President George W. Bush's administration. "Weapons of mass destruction" is a phrase we all ought to remember, for the "alleged" proof of their existence led to Bush's war on Iraq announcement in 2003. While I vaguely remember fighting with certain family members over the legitimacy of these claims, I do not recall the scandal that followed Valerie and her husband years after the original declaration of war. I'm not a huge memoir fan, but I would highly recommend this to anyone who thinks a Facebook experiment is detrimental to our civil rights. As I move onto my third book this week (Lawrence in Arabia: War, Deceit, Imperial Folly and the Making of the Modern Middle East), I realize how much I've missed reading physical books. Taking those ten minutes I would have spent stalking my Facebook News Feed every few hours to read what actually interests me has been really refreshing. And, while I regrettably admit to missing out on friends' pictures and posts (especially those abroad who I can't see in person), I know a simple phone/Skype call or handwritten card goes a lot farther than pushing the Like button.

Out and over,

La petite pamplemousse

Farewell For Now, Facebook

Good evening!

I'm sitting here watching the sun set as I write to you; it's another beautiful pink-purple mix.

While I say goodbye to another day, I feel a sense of overwhelming change come upon me. I'm not sure what the change will bring, how it will alter my life, or even what it is, but my gut is telling me that a new path is starting to unfold before me and that I'm ready to take it. There's something in the breeze that reaffirms this truth. Nature often hands us clues about our lives; if only we would listen once in a while.

To start this new chapter off, I've decided to give good ole Facebook the boot. Like most twenty-somethings, I joined Facebook in order to make friends before the dreaded orientation week at my university. Back then, the site helped you establish contacts with those who would soon be in the same dorm, clubs, or even classes as you. You had to have an official email address hosted by your university to even register. Today, however, the scene has changed. Now relatives, young and old, near and far, are on the site posting new updates about their lives, while companies constantly try to catch my attention with their ads, paid posts, and the like.

Last week I got so sick of logging in for no good reason that I decided to run a personal experiment. I made a vow to myself that as of July 1st, I would no longer log into my account. I won't close my account permanently, I just won't allow myself to log in through my laptop, smartphone, or any other device I find in my hands. My goal is to stay disconnected from the virtual world until September 1st.

I'm looking forward to see how my mentality changes, how much I accomplish with those spare five or ten minutes I currently find myself wasting throughout the day, as well as how many emails I get notifying me of what's going on without me or asking me why I haven't been on in a while.

Ironically enough, a large number of news outlets, including sites such as Today.com and TechCrunch, ran stories on the negative reactions toward Facebook's manipulation of certain users' news feeds today. There have also been numerous videos highlighting the creepy factor of how the site works. One video you most likely watched that went viral under the name "Look Up" focused on social media in general and the influence of our smartphones on our lives. However, let's be clear: I'm not leaving and hoping to run into a future boyfriend because I'm not looking at my Facebook feed on my phone. I'm not taking a hiatus because I don't get as many likes or posts or comments as others. I'm taking a break because I want to see how productive I can be without the distractions, how much I can accomplish just being me in this physical world. I'm closing the door, but not locking it up (yet), in order to get closer to myself.

So follow along as I fight the urge to sign in and see what I discover along the way. Who knows, maybe there really is no way to live without being virtually connected 24/7 these days. Only the next two months will tell!

Until next time,

La petite pamplemousse

Sing Along Sunday: Jump Through June

Geez Louise did June fly by! I'm still trying to swallow the fact that I'm yet again one year older, let alone that it'll be four years this summer since I got my city assignment for my first teaching position in France. Since then, my life mentality has shifted, my naiveté of other cultures has slowly begun to diminish, and my need to please others before myself has certainly changed the most.

I find myself trying to avoid dwelling on the past in order to live in the present, but a look back at past versions of yourself is often necessary to push yourself forward to who you want to be. I spent a lot of this month imaging the future, analyzing the past, and trying to create a vision of who I want to be in order to make this year a successful one. These are a few of the songs I found myself listening to as I did just that.

In order to listen along with the descriptions below, be sure to click on the link. You can also follow me on Spotify by clicking here. Please note, you need a Spotify account in order to access my monthly playlists. I've included both the artists and song titles below, so feel free to listen with another app or music platform if you prefer.

Have a listen before we jump into July!

1. "Something's Got A Hold On Me" by Etta James: Most people recognize the first twenty seconds of this song because of Avicii's "Levels remix." Although I admit to signing that section as loud as I possibly can when his remix comes on the radio, the other two minutes and thirty seconds of the original song are what really get me grooving.
2. "Waves - Robin Schulz Radio Edit" by Mr. Probz: The repetitive beat in this song soothes my soul much like the physical waves of any beach.
3. "Stone Rollin'" by Raphael Saadiq: Step, tap, stir. Step, tap, stir, twirl. You'll catch me doing circles around myself while cooking to this one.
4. "Cut Your Teeth- Kygo Remix" by Kyla La Grange: As an aspiring bellydancer, I've been using this song to help with isolations, external hip circles, mayas, and shimmies.
5. "Say You'll Be There" by MO: An amazing cover of one of my favorite Spice Girls songs. This version sounds more dreamy and gives the lyrics a different vibe.
6. "Without Me" by Fantasia, Kelly Rowland, and Missy Elliott: I have heard this song on the radio dozens of times, but never had my phone close enough to use the app Shazam to figure out who was singing the first bit. What a wonderful, powerful trio of female artists.
7. "Gotta Work" by Amerie: This has always been one of my pump up jams to keep myself strong, centered, and working on what I truly want from my life.
8. "V.S.O.P" by K. Michelle: This lady always seems to have drama, but she also always gets me up dancing. Just wait for what I'm talking about; it happens right before the one minute mark.
9. "Get Free" by Major Lazer featuring Amber Coffman: For some odd reason, I'm just discovering this song. The lyrics, the vibe, the voice: woo-ee!
10. "I Heard It Through The Grapevine" by Gladys Knight & The Pips: I was in a Motown mood the second half of the month and had to include this one. What a classic!
11. "jasmine (demo)" by Jai Paul: This song was included on a CD mix my sister made for me. I've been listening to it on my drive to work ever since: no AC, windows all the way down, hair getting tangled the whole way there.
12. "Stay Ready (What A Life) by Jhene Aiko featuring Kendrick Lamar: Jhene's single, "The Worst," is all over the radio these days. This song deserves so much more national attention; although, admittedly, I'd love to keep it to myself.
13. "Jerk Ribs" by Kelis: She's moved from milkshakes to jerk ribs and the vibe is unbelievably groovy and, in my opinion, more natural for her voice. I'm loving her new CD, especially the songs that involve whistles!
14. "Be My Man" by Asa: Break out your tambourine again! I found this artist through Indila, a French singer I follow and who I mentioned in my last post.
15. "Upside Down" by Paloma Faith: A great, upbeat song that sounds like it should come out of a random jukebox in the middle of a city park.
16. "Kukere" by Iyanya: This was my wake up song last summer. I was all about the African playlists on 8tracks. I can't seem to get it out of my head a year later.
17. "Sing" by Ed Sheeran: I know, I know...what is this guy doing on one of my lists? I hit fast forward on every song I ever hear by him, but I'm guilty as charged of loving his latest single. I blame the catchy beat and refrain on Pharrell. The puppets that were in this music video, though, Lord that was freaky.
18. "Sweet About Me" by Gabriella Cilmi: I rediscovered this song when I popped an old summer CD mix in my car the other day. My Swedish coworkers sure knew what good music was all about, and, I'm sure still do.
19. "Back In The World" by David Gray: I'm so happy that David has a new CD out there this year; I wasn't a big fan of his last one. He's one of those artists I associate with a certain season. While I tend to only listen to him in that in between summer and fall time, this song was really calling to me this month.
20. "Hide" by Little May: Little May is an Australian trio of lovely ladies who follow up on every tweet of praise they receive. I reached out to them after listening to this song dozens of times a day for two weeks straight. Check out their music video for this song, as they're not yet on Spotify. I'm in love with what they did in this music video, especially the dance circle.
21. "Nirvana" by Sam Smith: This guy's voice is like buttercream icing: so damn smooth and sugary. While the acoustic version is worth a listen as well, something about the last twenty seconds of this song makes my heart skip a beat every time I listen to it.
22. "Try A Little Tenderness" by Otis Redding: Watching one of my studio's teachers perform a bellydance solo to this made me add this classic to the end of this month's list. The bellydance show included Korean pop, Bollywood music, and even old 1920s jazz. Creativity, emotions, and expression were abound that night.

There you have it folks! One more day and we're officially half way through 2014. Can you believe it? I certainly am struggling to accept how fast time is passing this year.

I'll be writing more frequently as I'll be doing a mini experiment the remainder of the summer. Stay tuned for the next post to learn more!

As always, have a wonderful week and stay true to you!

Bisous,

La petite pamplemousse